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Associate Teaching Professor of Linguistics at UC San Diego

Director of UCSD's Computational Social Science Program

Supporting Students in Mental Health Crisis

Will Styler

Updated May 1st, 2026

When a student comes to you in a difficult moment, this can take many forms. Sometimes, the student starts off with a typical interaction, but ‘breaks down’ in the middle of (e.g.) talking about the exam. Sometimes the student seems like they’re just fine, but proceed to tell you about something very serious going on. Sometimes, a student will walk into your office already in emotional distress. Sometimes, you may just find yourself in a random hallway, unexpectedly helping somebody through the worst day of their lives.

This guide is designed to help you in the very short term, the moments between the student opening up, and your connecting them with professional help. For information about supporting students who are undergoing trauma or crisis in the longer term, please see my other guide on Supporting students through extraordinary circumstances and trauma.

There are four important phases to these immediate crisis interactions:

  1. Managing Mandatory Reporting Obligations
  2. Helping the student in the moment
  3. Connecting the student with resources
  4. Following up

We’ll walk through these step by step, offering guidance

Managing Mandatory Reporting Obligations

Most Professors and Instructional Assistants are Mandatory Reporters (‘Responsible Employees’)! Any time that you get the sense that a student is planning to disclose something personally difficult, particularly around Title IX issues like stalking, sexual harassment, or sexual violence on campus, you should pre-emptively (and gently) remind them of your mandatory reporting status.

My general approach, however awkward it feels to interrupt, is to stop them for a moment and say something like…

Hold on. I’m getting the sense you’re about to share something. I want to help you, and you’re welcome to talk with me about whatever’s going on, but before you tell me specifics, you should know that in my role, I have certain reporting obligations, particularly around incidents involving sexual violence or sexual harassment on campus, and I want you to stay in control of the situation until you decide what you want to do. So, you’re welcome to tell me about your situation knowing I have this obligation, you can talk in more general terms, without giving specifics so I can help you find the right people to talk to, or, I can connect you with confidential resources and advocates that you can talk with, who don’t have the same reporting obligations as I do.”

This usually results in one of three outcomes:

“OK, you’re welcome to keep sharing and I want to support you, but do keep in mind my obligation to share aspects of what you tell me with OPHD after this meeting.”

Then, as soon as possible after the interaction ends and the student has been connected with resources, contact OPHD at UCSD to report the interaction.

Once these obligations have been addressed, you can focus on assisting the student.

Helping the student in the moment

Ultimately, you are not the student’s psychologist or therapist, and your goal needs to be connecting them with professional help. But, between ‘asking for help’ and ‘connecting with resources’, you are there in a critical moment, and your role matters! It may be that they’re opening up about this for the first time, or in a new context, or in a moment that they didn’t expect to, but badly needed to.

First, if you don’t know the student (e.g. you find them crying in a hallway), introduce yourself before you go any further, and get their name too. Make yourself human, and acknowledge their humanity. Now, how you’ll proceed depends partly on how the student is feeling and acting in this moment. I’ll focus here on five specific domains in mental health which are ‘scary’ for many people (crying/emotionality, delusional thinking, anger/agitation, suicidality, and trauma), and discuss how to address each of these as you support students in the moment.

Crying and Emotional Outbursts

There’s no ‘right’ way to support a student who’s crying or experiencing an emotional moment in your office, but here’s some general advice:

Do:

Do not:

Disorganized or Delusional Thinking

Sometimes, a student comes to you and has clearly lost touch with reality, either altogether, or in specific domains. Remember that often, schizophrenia and related disorders commonly manifest in people’s lives around the age of 20-25, so it’s not uncommon that a student with no history of mental health difficulties suddenly finds themselves struggling.

‘Red Flags’ for student mental health crisis

As you’re talking with students or reading student assignments and communications, keep an eye out for…

In all of these cases, the student needs immediate professional assistance.

Do:

Do not:

Unfortunately, sometimes, these situations can lead to…

Agitated or Threatening Students

Sometimes, you’ll find a student is angry or agitated, in a way which goes beyond the normal “I don’t like my homework grade” anger, and in a way that doesn’t respond to arguments or reason. If you find yourself in an interaction where the student is agitated, angry, or threatening, and you realize that your safety or theirs is a concern, you’ll need to de-escalate the situation. To help with this…

Do:

Do not:

(Thanks to Richmond et al. 2012 for some of these suggestions)

Suicidality

It can be extremely scary to interact with somebody expressing to you that they’re contemplating ending their lives or harming themselves, if you’re not familiar with these feelings yourself and have never had these conversations. But, there is a way to handle it which can help the student.

Do:

Do not:

Trauma and Extraordinary Circumstances

I’ve written an entire document describing how to support students going through trauma which focuses not on the immediate moment, but on the longer term, but here are some quick tips to remember:

Do:

Do not:

Connecting the student with Resources

No matter what happens in your discussion, above all else, make sure that the student leaves your care with good resources and a path forward. This can take a few forms, presented in order of decreasing urgency:

Regardless of the method you choose, the key here is to make sure that students don’t leave your office feeling scared, unsupported, or hopeless, and that they know there are people they can talk to as part of their next steps.

Commonly Used Resources

Some of the most common resource needs you’ll face are:

Department Level Resources

It’s possible that a student in crisis might also benefit from department level help (e.g. getting policy exceptions, or advising about leaves of absence). You can talk with the student about this directly, for example:

“Hey, I think it might be helpful for our Chair to know some of this for [Reasons X, Y and Z]. Would you like me to connect you two? Or, would you like me to talk with him directly? What are you OK with my sharing?”

Regardless, it’s critical for the student to feel like they’re in control of what is and isn’t shared (assuming mandatory reporting doesn’t apply), so follow the student’s lead and respect their wishes.

Following up

This last step is optional, but generally a kindness. Consider gently checking in with the student, either next time you see them, or a few days later by email. This is particularly relevant if you simply leave them with contact information for resources, but generally never hurts. As you’re checking in…

Do:

Do not:

Appendix: Designing your Space for Student Comfort

Although we often don’t have control over where these interactions take place, there are simple ways to ensure that the space that you use for interacting with students is calm and comforting:

Cited References and Acknowledgements